Everything in your life has been manifested by you so that you can meet yourself & experience yourself.
If things don't go the way you want them to in your life, this means that you have a lot of subconscious aspects that are in pain & they are the ones that manifest things for you, as your subconscious is the one that holds the reins of your life 95% of the time. These aspects that lie below your awareness scream for integration, love and radical acceptance.
But they can only be integrated if you see them first. And you can see them (if you give yourself permission to) only through the contrast of undesired experiences.
That's why it is crucial for you to ask yourself, whenever in an unwanted context of your life, What is this trying to teach me/show me about myself? Be patient with the answer.
One cannot unravel their truth and cannot discover their sovereignty, their resilience, their inner power without an adversity to show them that. That is not to say you are to blame for the bad things in your life, don't fall into that trap. Realization of this shouldn't make you slip into a downward spiral of shame, guilt or powerlessness, it's not its purpose. To the contrary.
Realization of the fact that you manifest everything in your life is meant to show you that you are and have always been the one in control over what is going on in your life. The only missing piece was that you had not awareness of it. Until now.
The purpose of hardships in your life is to soften you, not to harden you.
Your strength doesn't come from how hard you are on your unwanted experiences and emotions.
Your strength comes from how softly you embrace them & accept them. You meet yourself as you are only in the heart of a storm.
You meet who you are when you have nothing else to lose. Because that's exactly when you have everything to gain.
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