You're not getting where you want to be because first you're not surrendering to where you are.
When you are ready to understand the following concept that I want to talk to you about in this article, you will implicitly and automatically know what you have to do and it will come naturally to you. The concept is that of integration/unification of polarities. This concept is the foundation of everything in this world and everything out of this world.
We live in polarity here on Earth. It is not the case with the other realms, but in the 3D, contrast is what reigns over our lives. That means that we learn black because we know white, we learn good because we have known bad, we know love because we have known/know hate etc. We choose one thing, one principle and one way of existing because we have seen its opposite and we don't like it. It's only natural, how would anyone consciously and knowingly go for hate and malice if they had the obvious choice of love and kindness? Unknowingly and unconsciouly we do actually choose these less favourable things a lot of the times, but this is another topic completely that I will most like tackle in another separate article.
If your choice is the by-product of rejecting the opposite of that choice, you have trapped yourself in the mechanism of escaping it at all costs. And the costs of this escapism is that you never live in your truth and authenticity. You live in denial under the guise of choice
Going back to the polarity that compels us to choose, we opt for the better option because we push against that which is on the other side of it. We don't want bad, so we go for whatever our social conditioning says it is right. This contrast however, or polarity, has the gift of making us prisoners of that which we desperately trying to run away from. You're wanting something because of something else that you are trying desperately to avoid. You are choosing to be somewhere else because you reject your present moment.
When you are in polarity, all decisions are made by your pain and by the despair to avoid the ordeal of re-living your traumas
You're not getting where you wanna be because first you're not surrendering to where you are. If you find yourself stuck and not being able to have the breakthrough you want so much it is because you want to escape where you are.
If you hate your relationship but you stay in it because you have a trauma of being afraid to be alone, you are going against your trauma and the fear and lack are motivating your choice.
The only way out of polarity is to take it all in. Turn around and face the demons that have been bellowing at you your entire life. Sit with their pain, sit with the emotions that caused you to always be on the run. Look your shadows in the eye and bring them into the light. It is the only way to win, it is the only way to have a free choice: when you have integrated that which you are afraid will happen once you stop running.
The second you understand that you need to accept and allow the situation you are in to be as it is and to approve of it, the second you let love for your own darkness to engulf you, you will untether yourself and you will start seeing opportunities where there once were only obstacles and fears. You transcend polarity. You transcend difference. You transcend separateness. You are free.
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